We serve a God who calls us to forgive. Not to turn a blind eye to wrongdoing or injustice, but not to let anger and unforgiveness fester in our hearts. Because he knows that poisons our soul and our relationships. Because he forgave us and continues to forgive our fallen selves.

Steps to being a more forgiving person:

1. Write out Colossians 3:13 above or simply write the word “forgive” and post it in a prominent place in your home, office, or car.

2. Think of a person you’re currently struggling to forgive. Commit to pray for him/her every day this week.

3. To keep yourself mindful of your own need for forgiveness, kneel by your bed each night as a physical act of humility and ask God to forgive the day’s mistakes.

4. Read John 19 and 20 for a reminder of the source of true forgiveness.

5. For a better grasp on the concept of forgiveness, read: “What Forgiveness Isn’t.”

6. Consider whether the person you need to forgive is yourself. If you’re still beating yourself up over past sins, meditate on and pray over 1 John 1:9, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” Write out your misdeeds and burn the paper as a symbol of God’s sovereignty over your past—and your future.